Everyone knows the feeling: the unconditional love of a dog is like no other. But while we shower our furry friends with affection, how do we know they truly feel the same?
Dr. Emma Scales-Theobald, Canine Behaviourist and resident dog expert at Canine Cottages, shares her insights on how dogs express their love, from wagging tails to playful nudges and bringing you their toys.
Do dogs love their owners?
Research shows that a dog’s heart rate can increase by 46% when told “I love you,” proving that the bond between dogs and humans is more than just emotional - it’s physiological. Interaction with their owners also triggers the release of oxytocin, the so-called “love hormone,” in both dogs and humans.
“As dog owners, it’s natural to want to understand how our pets feel,” says Dr. Emma. “Learning their gestures of love helps deepen our connection and ensures we respond to their emotional needs.”
11 ways your dog shows they love you
Understanding how your dog expresses love can make your bond even stronger. From subtle nudges to playful gestures, these behaviours are your dog’s way of saying “I love you.”
1. Seeking strokes and cuddles
Dogs that adore you often seek out petting. The physical contact releases oxytocin in both of you, reinforcing your bond. Look for relaxed body language, soft eyes, and wagging tails to tell if your dog is enjoying the affection.
2. Nudging you for attention
When your dog nudges your hand or arm, it’s their way of saying “Don’t stop!” This playful or gentle push encourages more cuddles or interaction, showing their desire for closeness.
3. Sitting on or near you
Being close - even without direct contact - is a sign of trust and affection. Whether your dog sits on your lap or beside you on the floor, it’s their way of staying connected.
4. Leaning into you
Leaning is a sign that your dog seeks comfort and security from your presence. A dog sitting on your feet may be quietly claiming you as their own.
5. Belly rub requests
Rolling onto their back is a classic gesture of trust. A wagging tail and relaxed posture usually signal a desire for belly rubs. But if ears are pinned back or the body is tense, your dog may be anxious rather than affectionate.
6. Following you around
Some dogs develop “Velcro dog syndrome,” following their owners room to room. This behaviour is a clear sign that they see you as their person.
7. Sharing toys
When a dog brings you a toy, it’s more than an invitation to play - it’s a gift, demonstrating trust and love. Celebrate it with a game or praise.
8. Asking you to play
The classic “play bow” - front lowered, hind raised, tail wagging - is an invitation to have fun. Engaging in play strengthens your bond and keeps your dog mentally and physically stimulated.
9. Jumping up at you
Jumping is a way dogs get closer to your face to connect. While affectionate, large dogs may need training to greet safely.
10. Sleeping on or near you
Sleeping is when dogs are most vulnerable. Choosing to rest near you is a profound sign of trust and love. A comfortable dog bed can also help your pet feel safe and relaxed while spending time close to you.
11. Licking you
Many dogs lick their owners as a sign of affection, releasing endorphins and dopamine. However, obsessive licking can indicate anxiety, so watch other body language cues to understand the context.
Meet the expert
Dr. Emma Scales-Theobald is a canine behaviourist and resident dog expert at Canine Cottages. She holds a PhD in Veterinary Medicine and Science from the University of Surrey and an MSc in Animal Behaviour from the University of Exeter.
Dr. Emma specialises in canine health, behaviour, and quality of life for both healthy dogs and those with chronic conditions, such as osteoarthritis, dementia, and pruritus. Her expertise helps dog owners better understand their pets’ emotions and strengthen the human-dog bond.
Arabella Horspool is a Commercial Content Writer for Yours at Bauer Media. A devoted bookworm and TV fan, she’s always immersed in the latest shows or catching the newest films and theatre productions. When she’s not writing, Arabella enjoys cooking and exploring the outdoors with her dog.