Millicent Martin: her career, husband and greatest influence

The actress has enjoyed a dazzling career.

Millicent Martin

by Richard Barber and Emily Thorpe |
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Millicent Martin is instantly recognisable with her infectious laughter and the same red hair although a softer shade now and artfully mixed with a little silver. She strikes an eternally youthful figure, her reactions razor-sharp, dates and names instantly at her fingertips.

But after over 70 years in show business, how much do you know about BAFTA award-winning actress and her glittering career?

Who is Millicent Martin?

Actress Millicent is perhaps best known as the resident female singer of topical songs in the BBC Television satire show That Was The Week That Was and as shrewd Gertrude Moon (Daphne’s mum) in the hit American sitcom Frasier.

How old is Millicent Martin?

Millicent Mary Lillian Martin was born on 8 June 1934, making her 86 currently.

Millicent Martin's early career

Still going strong at 86, Millie has no plans to call it a day and put her feet up. “Oh, I shan’t ever retire,” she says. “I’m at that lovely point where I can cherry pick the parts that appeal to me.”

She’s certainly earned her spurs, celebrating an astonishing seven decades in the industry. “I got my first professional job at 14 in a musical, Lute Song, with Yul Brynner. He was so lovely to us three handmaidens. On the first night, he gave each of us a lacquer box full of make-up brushes – a great thrill for a teenage girl.”

She appeared opposite Mary Martin – Larry Hagman’s mother – in a West End production of South Pacific in the Fifties and then in Guys and Dolls. She crossed ‘the pond’ to play alongside Julie Andrews on Broadway in The Boy Friend and shared a New York apartment with her. “We’ve been chums from that day to this,” she says.

But it was via the weekly satirical TV show, That Was The Week That Was, that she became a household name. “I’d done well in musical theatre, but I always say that [producer and director] Ned Sherrin gave me my career. He put me into every sitting room.”

Mark you, she wouldn’t now want to see any old clips from the show. “Oh, I’d hate it. It would seem so old fashioned. For example, I remember telling Roy Kinnear his flies were undone and the BBC switchboard lit up like a Christmas tree. Most callers said we’d all go to hell in a handcart.”

Millicent Martin in Morecambe and Wise

Millicent starred in Morecambe and Wise's series "Two of a Kind" in the 1960s. “The thing I liked about Eric, and this isn’t mentioned much, was his genuine admiration for Ernie. We’d rehearse a sketch and, at the end, Eric would say: ‘Did you see what Ernie just did? Did you see how he gave me the opportunity for that line? He’s the best straight man in the business’.” What about Ernie? Was the feeling reciprocated? ‘Oh, he just loved Eric,” says Millie. “He told me he was working with a genius.”

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What else has Millicent Martin starred in?

Millie has enjoyed an illustrious career, starring in all manner of television series including The King of Hearts, Hot in Cleveland, Days of Our Lives, Grace and Frankie and Modern Family.

She has also acted in several films such as Stop the World – I Want to Get Off, Alfie and The Last Word.

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Who was Millicent Martin married to?

Millicent married American drama coach, Marc Alexander, who approached her at the first night party in New York following the opening of the musical, Side By Side By Sondheim, and praised her performance. “And then he asked me out for dinner.” They married three months later.

Both her first two marriages had ended in divorce. The first to the late Belfast-born crooner, Ronnie Carroll, lasted six years, the second to actor Norman Eshley, only five. “And with each of them, we got to the point where we realised the relationship simply wasn’t working any more. But I’m proud of the fact we didn’t degenerate into tearing strips off each other. We parted sadly, but with dignity.”

She and Marc, on the other hand, have been together over 40 years. “He’s been a wonderful husband. He’s never complained if my work has taken me away from home. I used to think that perhaps I wasn’t good at marriage until I met Marc.”

Does Millicent Martin have children?

Millie is happily childless with three nieces she adores, all of whom now have children of their own. “There’s no denying I wanted to get somewhere in the business. I put blinkers on and went for it. That wouldn’t have been compatible with having a child of my own and travelling all over the place.”

Millicent Martin's greatest influence

Ask her to cite her life’s greatest influence and she doesn’t hesitate: Ruby Hilary at the Italia Conti Stage School to where Millie won a scholarship aged 12. “She taught classical ballet. She dressed all in black, including black high-heeled pumps. I made a promise to myself that I’d dance in pumps like hers one day. And I did. “She knew me like the back of her hand. If I was at the back of her class, I’d fight to get better and better so that she’d move me forward. “The minute I reached the front row, she’d say: ‘Millicent, wonderful. Now you’re going up into the next class’ – and I’d be in the back row again. It was a very good experience.”

How does Millicent Martin spend her downtime?

Millicent has enjoyed a glittering career, but she’s more choosy these days. “I spent 40 years and more going out the front door to work at six o’clock in the evening when everyone else was coming home. Now I like to have my evenings with Marc.”

Millie also likes inviting half a dozen people over for a meal. “My pièce de résistance? Probably my beef stroganoff.” With a glass of wine? “Oh yes. I like the sort of red wine you can stand a spoon in,” says vivacious Millie, again with that infectious laugh.

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